22 May, 2026

Vernal Prog in Appleton

When I saw that Stick Men were returning to the Appleton Beer Factory, I immediately bought a ticket because having a ticket obligates one to go even if the show is out of town. They were last there in 2024 and it was a great concert which allowed me to rock out within mere feet of prog gods. Seeing Peter Gabriel live, Tony Levin was this small figure in the distance playing bass or Chapman stick but at the Appleton gig, he was about 6 or 8 feet away and seemed to be simultaneously larger than life and just this guy who happened to have a Chapman stick hanging down in front of him. I could see his fingers work their magic on the stick as he culled manic melodies from the 10 strings of the mysterious instrument.

And so last month my ladyfriend and I made a trek to Appleton for an overnighter on a cloudy afternoon. Upon pulling into the parking lot, we spied this lion donning wings and with what I take to be the Appleton skyline painted on it outside the hotel's entryway.


I wondered if there are more chimeric lions around town just as other Wisconsin burgs have painted cows and Madison has various decorated Bucky Badgers that are to be found around town.

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Back in 2024 I had come to Appleton to see a band perform but also to find respite from my wife and my marriage. But now I had a new partner. Instead of wandering Appleton alone, I had someone to explore the town with.

Our first stop was The Cozzy Corner for dinner. I'd stopped in there last time I was in town and enjoyed the blues/R&B decor as well as the food. My ladyfriend had been there a few times back in the day when she'd been in town for conferences.




I went with chicken and ribs.


My lady and I were in agreement: the ribs were dry and had a weird gritty/sinewy kind of texture which we thought was from being reheated. Not beyond edible but disappointing. Perhaps they'll be better on our next visit when Stick Men are back in a year or two.

To cheer ourselves up, we stopped in at The Book Store. That's not true. We stopped in because both of us love books and bookstores and would have done so even if our dinner had been superlative. Perhaps unimaginatively named, it was a spacious spot with rows and rows of shelves bursting with books, glorious books.


The romance section was likely the largest I've seen in any bookstore ever. Harlequin novels were categorized by cover color, whatever that indicated, and the sheer volume of space dedicated to this genre was a bit disconcerting. They even had an "extra spicy" section.


I dared not crack the spine of any of these "romances" lest I blush once learning what playing doctor truly entails.

Someone involved with the store is a Doctor Who fan. Tom Baker was to be found in a couple different spots in the sci-fi section.


The Doctor's arch enemies were lying in wait at the checkout ready to exterminate unsuspecting readers.


I ended up buying a book of poetry.


At first I thought that it was my first tome of verse but that's not true. It's the second as I have a copy of The Waste Land by T.S. Eliot on my shelf by which I mean still in a box somewhere.

I'd first run into Mary Oliver's work via the woman who organizes the Token Creek cleanup excursions that I've attended and thought that it was a good time to delve into her writing as I'd found the readings of a couple of her poems to be absolutely lovely.

With our purchases in hand, we headed back to the hotel where I'd relax for a little while before heading back downtown for the show while my ladyfriend would settle in for the night.

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The Appleton Beer Factory was hoppin' when I got there. There was a spot at the bar just for me and I cozied up with the beer menu. An Irish dark lager stood out for me. If I recall correctly, it was on nitro and was only around 3.5% A.B.V. meaning I could have 2 or 3. It was really tasty with a smooth body and a dry, mild roastiness. Just perfect.

As showtime approached, I went into the backroom which had a stage nestled in amongst the conical fermenters and boilers, kilometers of pipes, and plumbing equipment. Last time drummer Pat Mastelotto had a medical emergency and was unable to perform. Sitting in for him was his drum tech, methinks. This night, however, Mastelotto was ready, willing and able.

I adore Pat Mastelotto's drumming. His playing is intricate yet not overly busy, exciting but not pushy. He'll trigger something MIDIly with one hand and then starting playing a drum or cymbal while his other hand keeps a beat with a shaker. There's a lot going on but not to distraction. It's such a pleasure to watch him ply his trade.


The show began with a bit of improv before they went into "Cusp". I love this song! Mastelotto is just behind the beat and he looks like an octopus as he seems to have enough arms to constantly reach for a cymbal or a floor tom. Levin is playing a melodic lead, while Markus Reuter conjures a bass line from his touch guitar.

This was followed by "Brutal", the title track of their last album. I hadn't heard any of their new material at the time but really enjoyed it as the song had a kind of swagger - a swagger run through a regimen of Crimsonesque angular THRAK. Speaking of which, we were treated to a Fripp solo tune, "Breathless", in addition to a few Crimson tunes.


All of the Frippery sat well next to the Stick Men originals. The virtuoso playing was a joy to behold whether the song was a chaotic rocker or something quieter and more contemplative.

I stopped at the merch table after the show and grabbed a copy of Brutal before heading back to the hotel, ears ringing.


Stepping into our room, I found my ladyfriend fast asleep. Only her head remained uncovered while the rest of her body lay enshrouded by the blanket. It was a lovely, peaceful moment. The look on her face was one of serenity and I felt wanted coming to a bed with a woman who desired to be next to me. It was also great knowing that I would return home and deal not with a failing marriage but with a burgeoning romance. Life got worse after my last visit but it has since gotten much better.

Song of the day, 22 Mai 2026

The Willow's Progress

Her M.O. is to hide in the bedroom closet or under my bed and then come out periodically to poke around, check out this new hooman.

She came onto my bed last night a few times and let me pet her. It was so thrilling to see that pointy-eared cat silhouette against the glow of my bedroom window once again and it gave me a big, joyous grin.

I heard her digging in the litter box in the middle of the night but she didn't eat very much. A little kibble but I don't think she touched the wet chow so I am going to try a different flavor today.

My apartment feels so different with a little katze wandering around it. The place has life again, katzen are not just in photos, in memories - they're alive with the promise of purrs and nose boops and soft underfurs and...

21 May, 2026

I am a cat dad again!

And this means my drought of cat pics is over.

I brought out all of my cat accoutrement this afternoon - dishes, litter box, and whatnot. Being an old softy, I teared up as I laid everything out as memories of Piper flooded in.

Soon enough it was time to get Willow. The foster mom took a picture of me holding her in my Sixth Doctor hoodie so we'll be the hoopiest pair on the adoption site's social media soon, I suspect.

When I got her home and opened the carrier, she looked around and then went for the safety of underneath the couch.



She eventually came out and snooped around the place.


Then she investigated other rooms and found ample space to hide underneath my bed where she started meowling and her cries tugged on my heart strings somethin' fierce, I can tell you.

I retired to the couch to read and, after a while, she came out and joined me.


She is such a sweetie pie!

Scenes, 21 Mai 2026

My morning walk was filled with lots of bunny sightings. Alas, not all the photos were in focus but a fair few were.




I managed to get some decent photos of birds too.






I saw a wood duck! The first I've seen here in Madison in ages. Sadly, I wasn't able to get a good snap.





Still nervous

I went to meet Willow at her fosters' home yesterday evening. While I had to crawl on the floor, I managed to get some good pets in. She comes home with me today and my ladyfriend knitted a couple new blankets for her cat carrier.

I AM GOING TO BE A CAT DAD AGAIN!


I have wet & dry chow, treats, a new house, a new bed, a new cardboard scratcher bed hoolie...what am I missing? I bought some litter and there are plenty of toys. A tree or 2 next as she'll need to keep an eye on things outside.

It will be so wonderful to have a cat once again to dispel the quiet and bring some life to my apartment. I shall come home from work to a friendly feline face instead of stillness. Maybe see a pointy eared outline staring at me when I open my eyes while in bed during the antelucan hours.

I need ham! Willow likes ham. What kind should I get her? Krakus? Black Forest? Ham ham? So much to do before I bring her home.

I AM GOING TO BE A CAT DAD AGAIN!

20 May, 2026

Coming soon, 17 May 2026

Seen before a screening of Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. It's hard to believe that it was released 26 years ago. Will Hero and House of Flying Daggers return to cinemas too? The early and mid-2000s were a good time for wuxia.

We arrived a bit late and came in during the trailer for Supergirl.





Not sure why I cannot find a non-short version of this one.




...and noodles

A few people I know have raved about Taigu and their freshly-made noodles but I had never dined there until just a few days ago.

It was a bit weird to see what the interior of the old Knoche's grocery store had become.

Their flatware is gold-colored. I felt like an aristocrat.


We started with steamed edamame and my ladyfriend ordered beef noodles. The portions are, as she noted, Wisconsin-sized. That plate of noodles would prove to be at least 3 meals for her.


I sampled the noodles and they were very tasty indeed. Cooked al dente they were quite hearty and soaked up plenty of sauce.

I ordered the wonton soup along with a side of chili in oil.


Oh mama, it was good. It brought back warm memories of eating at the late, lamented Wah Kee. The only thing missing was more bok choy.

We'll be back.

Spreading the gospel

Here in Madison Memorial Day weekend means Bratfest while in Chicago it's about hot dogs. We are united by a common love of sausages. No ketchup!

Even fewer bare walls

Last weekend I picked up my prints from the frame shoppe and now they decorate some of my walls.

Bathroom:


I cannot wait to have toe beans at home once more.

My office:


I just adore this picture - birds, a cat, and snow. Lovely.


Finally, in my bedroom:


A lovely, natural woman with curvaceous hips and a big, beautiful beaver. Ha! Now, how long before my photo hosting service deletes it?

Nervous

This morning I am feeling nervous, feeling anxious for I am to meet this pretty lady this evening:


I hope she likes me. Nothing would please me more than to have a new feline friend in my life. Someone to come home to, someone to cuddle in bed. Look at those saucer eyes and all those tickler whiskers!

A meal months in the making

Several months ago a friend vowed to take me out for a steak dinner when my divorce was final. While my marriage was legally dissolved last week, it took a few days for our schedules to mesh with openings at The Tornado Room. It was worth the wait.


Our reservation was on the early side and the dining areas had not yet filled up with hungry patrons, although the bar was fairly well-populated. I almost had a glass of wine but instead ordered a beer. I noticed that the beer menu still had Schlitz on it. Get it while you can.


While the Riesling was tempting, I went with a Packerland Pilsner from Hinterland. I've always liked this brew and I found that it remained tasty and went well with our vorspeisen, shrimp cocktail.


Note the horseradish garnish on the sauce. The little extra zing was quite welcome.

The French onion soup was excellent, perhaps the best in town. The cheese was not merely melted but browned to perfection allowing me to revel in Maillard gluttony.



For the main course, I had a sirloin and green beans.


Grilled to perfection (medium), it was absolutely delicious and will go on to make for 3 meals before it is exhausted. The green beans were tasty too though I normally love giving them a generous shower of vinegar. The onion ring was thick and not overly battered.

Dessert was cheesecake. New York? I have not committed to memory the many varieties of cheesecake. The waiter had brought a candle with him thinking it was a birthday or anniversary. However, he lit it up anyway even after being told it was a meal to celebrate a divorce.


My ex-wife and I had dined at The Tornado Room a couple times and I was happy to find that the place wasn't tainted with memories of her and that dining there was a wonderful experience. Part of my divorce is about reclaiming places, songs, foods, traditions, et al from the clutches of a failed marriage and making them my own. A slow process but worth it. (However, I will likely never go to Everly again, though. Just driving by it makes me shudder.)

Song of the day, 20 Mai 2026

"Invisible Touch" is 40?!

Holy crap! Genesis released "Invisible Touch" as a single 40 years ago yesterday. I recall that day and my friend bought the 45 and we both liked the b-side, "In the Glow of the Night" better. Ha!

Scenes from a walk, 20 Mai 2026

My walk this morning began with squirrels in the tree next door looking down upon me. "Hooman!"




The trail along Starkweather Creek was just wonderful. Everything was so verdant and it smelled like summer.


Birds were everywhere. Even if I couldn't see them, I could hear them as the air was rife with song, calls, chirrups, and trilling which was a nice contrast to the morning commuters. I managed to get a few photos of our feathered friends that were in focus.










I am taking some tentative steps checking out the Carpenter-Ridgeway neighborhood. Today I found this lovely willow tree. Since none of my photos were quite what I was hoping they be, I intend to return. This is my favorite of today's bunch.


A couple closer to home on the home stretch.